02 February 2012
Why has he stopped calling?
So this guy I went out with once was calling me every weekend for about 3 or 4 weeks stopped calling me a month ago. There was a problem once when I was at a bar with him and others, and I was mostly talking to another guy, and he felt ignored. He called me about that and I thought we straightened things out. The next day he called about meeting me at an event, but then didn't come because he was tired. After that nothing. I really wanted to talk to him again. Recently I saw him and said hi, and he didn't say nice to see you, how were your holidays - just meaningless small talk - I was on my way with friends, and didn't know if I should invite him since he wasn't saying anything, so I sort of invited him and he asked twice where but I didn't know where, so he said well maybe he'd see us. So I'm not approaching him again if I see him again.
But should I email him and ask why he stopped talking to me? I'm so tired of just letting things go up in the air without really knowing what happened. Is that what you're supposed to do?
